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April Pulliam, Assistant Editor at Literary Titan wrote:
"Divorce Is Not a Destination is a compelling read for anyone navigating the aftermath of a breakup or divorce. Dr. Summerour’s blend of personal narrative, cultural insights, and practical advice makes it a valuable resource. This book is particularly beneficial for those who feel stigmatized by their divorce or are struggling to rebuild their self-confidence." Click for full review

Divorce Is Not A Destination®: A.A.C.T. In Joy!™

A Path to Overcoming Heartache, Rebuilding Confidence, and Living with Joy —After Breakup

DINAD is a compassionate exploration of the emotional hurdles that often accompany divorce. Drawing from her own experiences with breakups and multiple divorces, Dr. Lisa Summerour shares personal stories and profound insights to guide readers through the challenges of life during and after divorce. Divorce Is Not A Destination®: A.A.C.T. In Joy!™ offers a supportive hand to anyone struggling with the aftermath of divorce, shedding light on the complexities often hidden beneath the surface. Through heartfelt narratives and practical wisdom, Dr. Summerour provides strategies for reclaiming strength, rediscovering joy, and embarking on a journey that takes you beyond resilience to post-traumatic growth. Divorce is Not a Destination®: A.A.C.T. In Joy!™ is a beacon of hope for those navigating the uncertain waters of divorce, offering solace and empowerment to readers seeking to rebuild their lives by tapping into their birthright of joy.

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For the Woman Who Was Told to

Pray Through It and Keep It Moving

High-achieving women don't fall apart loudly. They keep leading. Keep performing. Keep delivering. While privately navigating one of the most destabilizing identity shifts of their lives.

Divorce Is Not a Destination gives her what no amount of professional achievement prepared her for — a structured, strategic methodology for rebuilding identity, confidence, and direction after divorce.

The Joy A.A.C.T.™ Framework — Accountability, Alignment, Communication, Trust — is an accredited, trademarked methodology developed by a doctoral-level practitioner with dual accreditation from the International Divorce Coach Centre of Excellence and The Dash Charity.

For practitioners and organizations: This book is a referral-ready resource for divorce coaches, therapists, HR wellness programs, women's professional associations, and leadership development organizations serving women in transition.

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She Survived the Shift. Now She Needs a Strategy to Rebuild.

High-achieving women don't fall apart loudly. They keep leading. Keep performing. Keep delivering. While privately navigating one of the most destabilizing identity shifts of their lives.

The Joy A.A.C.T.™ Framework — Accountability, Alignment, Communication, Trust — is an accredited, trademarked methodology developed by a doctoral-level practitioner with an accreditation from the International Divorce Coach Centre of Excellence and The D.A.S.H. Charity.

For practitioners and organizations: This book is a referral-ready resource for divorce coaches, therapists, HR wellness programs, women's professional associations, and leadership development organizations serving women in transition.

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Review: 5 Stars Rating

April Pulliam - Assistant Editor, Litary Titan - Full Review

In Divorce Is Not a Destination, Dr. Lisa Summerour presents a heartfelt exploration of divorce, drawing from her experiences and extensive work as a breakup and divorce coach. The book aims to transform the perception of divorce from a tragic end to a pivotal point of growth and self-discovery. Through personal anecdotes, practical exercises, and insightful reflections, Summerour encourages readers to embrace accountability, align their values, communicate effectively, and trust themselves as they navigate post-divorce life.

Dr. Summerour’s writing is both engaging and deeply personal. Her ability to share her vulnerabilities and triumphs makes the book relatable and inspiring. For example, her story of moving at the age of four due to her parents' separation sets a poignant tone that many readers can empathize with. She doesn’t shy away from discussing the complexities of her multiple marriages and divorces, which adds a layer of authenticity to her guidance. The way she reframes these experiences, particularly through the concept of accountability, is empowering and refreshing.

One fantastic aspect of the book is the practical advice interwoven with personal stories. The chapters on creating alignment and clear communication were particularly impactful for me. Summerour’s emphasis on aligning one’s actions with personal values and her candid discussion on the importance of self-trust provide concrete steps for readers to follow.

The inclusion of cultural perspectives on marriage and divorce, such as the Mosuo’s walking marriage and Mauritanian divorce celebrations, offers a broader context that challenges traditional Western views. This enriches the reader’s understanding and fosters a more inclusive dialogue on what it means to be in a relationship and what it means to end one.

Divorce Is Not a Destination is a compelling read for anyone navigating the aftermath of a breakup or divorce. Dr. Summerour’s blend of personal narrative, cultural insights, and practical advice makes it a valuable resource. This book is particularly beneficial for those who feel stigmatized by their divorce or are struggling to rebuild their self-confidence.

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Meet Dr. Lisa Summerour

The Transition Strategist

I was my own first client. That didn't keep me from experiencing success in many forms. I've had the privilege of acting alongside industry legends like Forest Whitaker and Denzel Washington. I've earned four degrees, explored the world, and lived through personal and professional adventures that most people only dream about.

While those who knew me might have envied the life I was living, few were aware of the challenges and traumas I experienced along the way. I had my share of difficult breakups. I also experienced the emotional stress and social embarrassment of more than one marriage and divorce. And throughout it all, I worked hard to navigate the highs and lows, often believing I was concealing my pain.

After years of self-help and internal work, I found a path to overcoming heartache, rebuilding my confidence, and living a life of joy. People noticed, and some friends and colleagues asked, "How did you do it?" That question became the foundation for everything I now do — including the Joy A.A.C.T.™ Framework and this award-winning book.

After earning a doctorate in Ethical Leadership — along with three additional degrees, including a Master's in Christian Studies — I pursued specialized training that goes deeper than divorce recovery. My accreditation is from The International Divorce Coach Centre of Excellence, in partnership with The Domestic Abuse Stops Here (DASH) Charity, a UK-regulated domestic abuse charity that has supported individuals experiencing domestic abuse for more than 45 years. As a Master Practitioner, I've been trained to work with clients divorcing difficult partners and those recovering from toxic relationships.

You don’t have to figure it out alone like I did. And it doesn’t have to take you as long as you think to heal from heartache, rebuild your confidence, and live healthier, happier, and whole.